Coming Out of the Broom Closet: A Witch’s Guide to Being Seen

Witchy Wisdom for the Worried Beginner

So, you’ve been quietly reading tarot, lighting candles, maybe whispering intentions to the moon—and now you’re wondering: do I tell anyone I’m a witch?

That question carries weight. And there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. Coming out of the broom closet is deeply personal, and it’s okay to feel unsure, scared, or even guilty.

Let’s talk about it gently, without pressure.

You Don’t Owe Anyone an Explanation

First and most importantly: you don’t have to tell anyone.

If it’s not safe, if it’s not the right time, or if you simply don’t want to—that’s valid. Your practice is yours. Private doesn’t mean less powerful.

Some witches never come out. Others tell just a partner or a friend. Some go full cloak-and-cauldron on social media. There’s no wrong way.

Signs You Might Be Ready

• You feel the need to live more authentically
• You’re tired of hiding your tools, books, or beliefs
• You want support or community but feel isolated
• You feel like you’re shrinking yourself for others’ comfort

Even then, you don’t have to go all in. Start small. You might say:

“I’ve been exploring spiritual practices outside of mainstream religion.”
“I follow the moon cycles—it helps me feel grounded.”

That’s enough.

Handling Skepticism or Pushback

Sadly, not everyone will understand. And that’s hard.

If someone reacts poorly:

• Stay calm. You don’t need to defend your beliefs.
• Reaffirm your boundaries: “This is important to me, even if it’s not for you.”
• Remember: their discomfort is not your problem to fix.

Not everyone has to approve. They just need to respect your autonomy.

Celebrate the Little Steps

Coming out doesn’t have to be a dramatic moment. It might look like:

• Wearing a pentacle necklace for the first time
• Posting a quote about intuition
• Bringing your own herbal tea to work
• Saying “It’s a full moon tonight!” out loud

Each little step is powerful. Each one says: I exist, and I honour that.

A Simple Spell for Confidence

Before a conversation or symbolic step, try this:

1. Stand in front of a mirror or close your eyes.
2. Place both hands over your heart.
3. Say:

I am seen. I am safe. I am sovereign.
I carry my truth with strength and softness.

Let that be your shield and your light.

Final Thoughts on Coming Out of the Broom Closet

You might worry that coming out of the broom closet will change how people see you—and it might. But sometimes, that change makes room for deeper, more honest connections. Sometimes it clears space for people who truly align with your values.

It can also be surprisingly freeing. The more you honour your truth, the more your energy settles. You stop holding your breath. You stop dimming your light. And slowly, your magic begins to flourish again—not because you’re louder, but because you’re more yourself.

That doesn’t mean it’s always easy. But it’s often worth it.

You can also find community online or in person if you’re not ready to open up to family or friends. Seek out like-minded witches, supportive spaces, and resources that remind you you’re not walking this path alone.

And remember, even if no one in your everyday life knows yet, I see you. Your fellow witches see you. And we’re cheering you on.

Whether your journey is quiet, loud, or somewhere in between—you’re doing just fine.

Whether you shout it from the rooftops or whisper it only to the moon, your path is real. And worthy.

Come out if and when it feels right. Until then, you are still a witch.

And you are never alone.

Remember: coming out of the broom closet doesn’t have to be loud to be powerful. Every quiet act of self-honouring—every moment you choose truth over fear—is a spell in itself.

Take your time. Do it your way. And trust that the right people will honour the real you.

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