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Remove a Love Spell: Freeing Yourself from Jealous Ties

Ritual altar with black and red candles, rose quartz, and salt water for how to remove a love spell.

Remove a Love Spell: Freeing Yourself from Jealous Ties

Ritual altar with black and red candles, rose quartz, and salt water for how to remove a love spell.

Remove a Love Spell: Freeing Yourself from Jealous Ties

Love magic can be beautiful when it’s rooted in honesty and care — but when jealousy twists that energy, it can leave people feeling trapped, blocked, or disconnected. One of the most common worries I hear is that an ex-partner may have cast a spell to interfere with intimacy or pull someone back. Whether or not that’s the case, the feeling of being bound or drained is very real, and it’s something we can work to release.

How Jealousy Can Linger

Relationships carry powerful energy. When they end badly, that energy doesn’t always dissolve straight away. A jealous ex may focus harmful intent, consciously or unconsciously, creating a tie that weighs on your current love life. Even without actual spellwork, the residue of hurt and obsession can cling. The good news? You are not powerless. You can remove a love spell and cut those cords to restore intimacy, joy, and peace.

Signs of a Jealous Ex’s Influence

Every situation is unique, but here are some common signs people report when they feel an ex is interfering:

  • Sudden drop in intimacy or affection in a healthy relationship.

  • Feelings of disconnection or emotional “numbness.”

  • Arguments or tension that seem to appear out of nowhere.

  • Dreams or intrusive thoughts about the ex.

  • A heavy sense of being watched or energetically bound.

These symptoms can come from many sources — stress, grief, outside pressures — but cleansing rituals work regardless. They free you from any lingering attachments, magical or otherwise.

Ritual to Break Jealous Ties

This simple working is designed to help you remove a love spell and release your relationship from outside interference. You’ll need:

  • 1 black candle (banishment)

  • 1 red candle (passion & renewal)

  • A bowl of salt water

  • A piece of rose quartz (for love healing)

Step 1: Cleanse the Space
Light the black candle and place the bowl of salt water in front of it. Pass your hands through the smoke or flame (safely), saying: “What is not ours, be gone.”

Step 2: Cut the Tie
Visualise your partner bound by cords to their past. With your hands, mime cutting these cords, letting them dissolve into the salt water.

Step 3: Restore Passion
Light the red candle beside the black one. Place the rose quartz between them, saying: “We are free. Our love is strong. Joy returns.”

Step 4: Close the Ritual
Pour the salt water outside onto the earth. Allow the candles to burn safely down, or snuff them if needed. Keep the rose quartz by your bed as a charm of intimacy and protection.

How to Protect Your Love Going Forward

Breaking old ties is only the first step. To keep your love free of interference:

  • Burn rosemary or sage weekly to cleanse the home.

  • Place black obsidian near the bed for shielding.

  • Share a simple daily practice with your partner — even a kiss with intent, or a whispered affirmation: “Our love is strong and protected.”

Remove a Love Spell and Reclaim Joy

No jealous ex can control the bond between two people who choose each other every day. When you take steps to cleanse, protect, and nurture your intimacy, you put your relationship back in your own hands. Rituals like this are not about fear — they are about empowerment, healing, and freedom.


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